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Dr Petra Bueskens

Dr Petra Bueskens

Hello and welcome to PPMD Therapy. This is a psychotherapy and counselling service founded and run by Dr Petra Bueskens. I offer psychotherapy and counselling services to individuals, couples, families and children with a background in both psychodynamic therapy and sociology.  Most of my work at present is with couples, though I also work with individuals across a spectrum of issues including depression, anxiety, addiction, trauma, grief and loss as well as more specific concerns around sexuality, identity, the transition to motherhood/parenthood, work, ageing, relationships and more.

Psychodynamic therapy is a style of therapy that considers problems in terms of the ‘whole person’ – that is, your background, experiences in your family of origin, dynamics with self and other, as well as unconscious processes including dreams, fantasies, slips of the tongue and the resonance of anniversaries. Psychodynamic therapy is concerned with the subjective meaning of symptoms, that is with feelings, and with understanding this meaning in the context of your life. The primary focus is on the working relationship between therapist and client.

My educational background is also in sociology – a discipline which considers society or ‘the social’ as the central means to understanding individuals and their behaviour. This means, I take time to consider the social context and meaning of your symptoms. People from different backgrounds and cultures have different understandings of what is and is not ‘right’, what is and is not ‘good’ that impacts upon both mental health and illness.  There are few services that bring these two disciplines – psychotherapy and sociology – together to understand and process your concerns. Read on if you would like more specific details or would like to book an appointment.

Psychotherapy and Counselling Journal of Australia vol 4: Psychoanalytic Theories and Therapies

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PACJA vol. 4 is now published. As editor I put together this exciting themed edition on psychoanalytic theories and therapies. There are rich contributions by leaders in their fields including Professor Jon Mills, Professor Diana Kenny, Associate Professor Peg Levine, Professor Denis O’Hara. Professor Anthony McCarthy, Anne Manne on narcissism and more. You can read my editorial here, which gives an overview of each article as well as the two literature reviews and books reviews.

“This edition of PACJA promises an eclectic and exciting collection of articles under the broad theme of psychoanalytic theories and therapies. What characterizes these different articles – the first three in particular – is an analysis of analysis or, in Jon Mills’ terms, an internal critique of psychoanalytic theories and therapies. This critique from within is important; it is part of the process of scholarly and clinical reflection and revision and yet, as Mills describes, it is so often fraught.  While critique from outside psychoanalysis is predictably dismissive, faulting psychoanalytic concepts such as the unconscious on their lack of empirical evidence or theories such as infantile sexuality on their apparently preposterous and fantastical qualities, critique from within tends to be fractious and lead to splits within and across schools.” Read on.

 

Couples therapy

Dr Petra Bueskens

Dr Petra Bueskens

There are new appointments for couples seeking therapy in Melbourne on Monday afternoon and evenings. Please contact here if you would like to make an enquiry or a booking.

Group therapy sessions for single parents

I will be starting group therapy sessions on Wednesdays in Daylesford for single parents starting January 2016. For centrelink recipients, cost will be $15. Please contact Petra via email: petra@ppmdtherapy.com or call 0400 152 412

 

 

Psychotherapy and Counselling Federation of Australia (PACFA) conference June 2014

Mothers in transition: Changing gender dynamics in the home through strategic absence

Petra Bueskens - presentation PACFA 2014 conference

Petra Bueskens – presentation PACFA 2014 conference

 

 

This is a link to a video-taped invited lecture I gave at the PACFA conference in June 2014, ‘Complexity and Connectedness in Life and Love’. It is based on my PhD research with mothers who use ‘strategic absence’ to shift gender dynamics in the home. You can purchase the video here:

In the sociological and feminist research on motherhood there is consensus that key gender differences in income, employment status, leisure, autonomy as well as time spent in childcare and domestic work take shape and consolidate after “partners become parents”. I interviewed ten women I call “revolving mothers” who used situational absence to subvert – intentionally or not – the gendered dynamics of childcare, leisure and work in the home. I link the outcomes of this research to a critique of, and engagement with, social and feminist theories of the liberal individual, the social construction of intensive motherhood, articulations of self-identity and changing gender roles in the contemporary west.

PACFA CONFERENCE 2014
Complexity & Connectedness In Life & Love
13-15 June 2014, Sydney, Australia
Visit PACFA at: www.pacfa.org.au

Single mothers and the sexual contract

 

I wrote this piece after reading many of the comments on the Parenting Payment for Parents – NOT Newstart facebook page. It begins with a story about my own experience of single motherhood and contrasts this with how difficult things have become. I critique the new “Fair Incentives to Work” legislation which has forced all recipients of Parenting Payment Single whose children have turned 8 onto the woefully inadequate Newstart payment. I make the argument that this is a human rights violation because it essentially discrimates against women with children who are not married.

Read ‘Single mothers and the sexual contract’ at On-Line Opinion:

http://www.onlineopinion.com.au/view.asp?article=14716

How Psychotherapy Fits into a Dissolving Social Structure

 I wrote the article “How Psychotherapy Fits into a Dissolving Social Structure” in response to a heated exchange between the sociologist Professor Eva Illouz and three members of the Israel Psychoanalytic Society in the weekend magazine of the Israeli newspaper Haaretz.  The article was published in the August 11, 2012 weekend edition.  This article is only available to subscribers and can be read here:

My op-ed was an abridged version of a chapter than can be accessed in my book Mothering and Psychoanalysis: Clinical, Sociological and Feminist Perspectives (Demeter Press, 2014). The article and the chapter explore the antipathy between sociology and psychotherapy and make the case that both paradigms and practices have something to offer each other. As someone who is both a psychotherapist and a sociologist I argue that each can and should be informed by the other as per a long history beginning with Freud, Erich Fromm, the Frankfurt School and others.

 

 

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